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Question Number: 8973


RE: Select High School

Cassie of LIvonia, MI USA asks...

Okay, Here's my problem. Alot of the, like, stupid parents say that I'm, like, a really bad referee. I mean, come on, that is, like, totally stupid. If I am a bad referee, I woulnd't have made it past the exams. I mean, if the kid in front of me was a really bad referee, I would have been one. I mean, there is the, like, this stupid game. And I just finished a game, so, like, now, my boyfriend comes to pick me up, and they ask if I can referee another game. So, totally, I'm like sure, I mean who in their right minds would, like, skip, like, 20 bucks. Come On!! So, I do this stupid little game, and they yell at me because I am talking to my boyfriend. Can't I talk to my boyfriend. I mean come on. YOur only beautiful for a little

Answer provided by Referee Chuck Fleischer

Please understand this: in reading your question you seem very unprofessional and this may contribute to parents being short tempered.

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Answer provided by Referee Keith Contarino

Ok,like.maybe,hmmmm,like, I'm not,like TOTALLY,sure about,you know, like, what you hmmm may be, like talking about but,well, IRREGARDLESS, you know, maybe, I'm well,whatever

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